I typically reserve this space for reports of family travel adventures. Traveling with kids is a special kind of hard, all of which I’ve been reminded of since embarking upon this most recent Louka journey.

School was cancelled all last week due to snow that quickly transformed to ice. Our au pair was stranded in Orlando at the beginning of the storm, my husband facing stranding in Tampa at the end of the week. I held down the fort at home, just happy this all landed when I wasn’t scheduled to work.
My husband said “take a few days – just you. Go somewhere warm and relax.” I fought him at first – that’s not practical, that’s money we don’t have… who will do _____? But he kept pushing, and I realized he meant it. I said yes.
The initial plan was St Maarten Sonesta Maho Resort. If you follow us, you may remember we went there in January 2023. Alas the weather gods did not have that in their plans for me. I thought I’d be safe connecting in Charlotte, NC but of course the day I chose to travel there was a winter storm there dumping 12” of snow, an all time record for the city.

My flight to St Maarten was supposed to leave at 9:30am. I’ll spare you the back and forth which involved two trips back to the gate and a 1 hour de-icing of our plane, only to be the last plane de-iced before the entire airport shut down for the night. They cancelled the flight, and four hours later, the flight they’d rescheduled me on as well.
Exhausted, I crashed at an airport hotel, which was not easy to get to. Initially I was fighting with 300 other people to get an uber to take me 1.5 miles in 12” of snow. I quickly realized this was not the time to be cheap, ordered up the Uber Black (SUV) and skipped the line.
That turned out to be a good call as we passed 4 sedans that had run off the road or been abandoned after getting stuck in the snow. In just 1.5 miles. I crashed at the Charlotte Suites, just happy to have a safe place to sleep for the night.

This morning I awoke recharged and ready to formulate a new plan. Realizing breakfast might be my only meal of the day as the airport had closed all restaurants due to staffing issues, I stocked up on sausage and fruit.

For the love of all travel gods, Expedia refunded my entire trip since there was no way to get to St Maarten for at least 48 hours. That allowed me to start fresh and rebook an entirely new trip. But where to? How does one decide?
With a lot of help from Amir, I’d narrowed it down to San Juan, Puerto Rico or Cancun, Mexico as those both allowed me to get there same day rather than losing another day. Ultimately I picked Mexico, probably since I’ve somehow never been there (aside from a cruise stop 20 years ago) and would be able to practice my Spanish.
With some help from Ale, our former au pair from Mexico, I picked a resort and pulled the trigger. My flights departed and arrived without issue – a fresh change.

Tomorrow I’ll explore this place – I booked a massage for 4pm but otherwise just plan to wander and relax. There’s a freedom in being here alone, but I’ve already caught myself wondering what Amir or the kids would think about this or that.
-Steph


























