Tag: Beach

Day 12: One Last Day in España

Our final day on the Mediterranean started with plans to tackle the giant blue-and-white inflatable water park we’d spotted from the jet skis. Unfortunately, Mother Nature had other ideas. A yellow flag was flying over the beach, warning of rough surf, and while adults were technically allowed on the inflatable, children were not.

You’ll notice others took a pass as well

Watching the entire structure heave up and down with the waves from the safety of the shoreline was enough to make my stomach turn. We decided we’d save that adventure for another trip.

Instead, we embraced a slower beach day. Thankfully we’d packed our buckets and shovels, so the kids happily settled into the sand. #1BigSister was transformed into a mermaid, #1BigBrother and Lidia spent their time jumping waves together, and Amir began what appeared to be a determined excavation to the center of the Earth.

As you’ve probably gathered by now, lunch is the main event in Spain. Today Amir took over the kitchen, making a wonderful chicken piccata. It was comfortingly familiar for us but a new experience for most of the Spaniards, and it was a big hit.

After our customary siesta, we made good on our promise to the kids and headed out for gelato to soften the disappointment of missing the inflatable park. Along the way, we stumbled upon something completely unexpected—a pizza vending machine. For €10, you choose your toppings, pay at the kiosk, and a few minutes later a piping-hot, freshly baked 10-inch pizza emerges, all without a single human involved. Amir, naturally, couldn’t resist giving it a try. I was too full to sample it myself, but the reviews—and his verdict—were surprisingly positive.

Pizza vending machine

Later, #1BigSister and I wandered through town in search of souvenirs for friends back home. We also found someone to braid her hair after passing one stand with a very long wait. She chose light purple extensions inspired by Rumi from K-Pop Demon Hunters, decorated with colorful rubber bands. I told her she looked like an Egyptian version of Rumi, and she couldn’t have been happier.

35€ and 25 minutes

When we returned to the house, everyone else had ordered Chinese takeout for dinner. Between the generous lunch and our afternoon gelato, I managed only a vegetable egg roll before beginning the less glamorous task of packing for tomorrow’s journey.

We’ll miss this wonderful pool

In the morning we’ll leave Peñíscola, drive back to Barcelona, fly to Geneva, Switzerland, and then make the two-hour drive into the mountains to our chalet. It will be a completely different chapter of this adventure.

The hardest part of today, though, was saying goodbye to Raquel and Jesús. They welcomed us into their home and family with such extraordinary warmth and generosity. This goodbye was especially emotional because they won’t see Lidia again until February, when she returns to Spain after completing her year and a half with us as our au pair.

Peñíscola Castle at Sunset

As I zipped my suitcase closed tonight, I found myself reflecting on the past twelve days. The people we met, the meals we shared, the traditions we experienced, and the kindness we were shown have left an impression that will stay with us long after we’ve returned home.

There’s a reason they say, ¡Viva España!

~Steph

España Day 9: Peñautol

One of the things that has fascinated me most about this trip is where we’re staying. Yesterday we arrived at Lidia’s family’s beach house in Peñíscolas, and it’s unlike any vacation community I’ve ever seen.

Neighbors in Peñautol who live here year round

More than 50 years ago, Lidia’s grandparents joined with several other families from Autol to dream up something special. Together, they pooled their money, designed the community, and helped build what they call Peñautol (Peñíscola + Autol). The result was ten modest beach homes, or casillas, tucked behind a gate and centered around a shared swimming pool.

Originally, every one of the ten homes belonged to families from Autol. Over the years, a few have changed hands, and today about half are still owned by those original Autol families. Even so, the sense of history and connection remains. These aren’t just vacation homes—they’re places where generations of the same families have spent their summers together, watching children become parents and now grandparents.

I can’t help but admire the vision it took. In an era long before crowdfunding or master-planned communities, a group of friends from a small Spanish town came together to create something that would bring their families joy for decades. Standing here today, more than 50 years later, with our own children splashing in the same shared pool, it’s clear they succeeded.

Castilla de Peñíscola

This morning we packed up our beach gear and made our way to the beach in Peñíscola. On the way, we stopped at a little shop to pick up a few essentials: inflatable rafts for the kids, some sand toys, and anything else that looked like it might make for a fun day by the sea.

Our first priority after arriving was securing a few lounge chairs under an umbrella. Once we had claimed our little patch of shade, the kids wasted no time racing toward the Mediterranean. While Amir wrestled with his inflatable, I proudly managed to get mine blown up first—a small but satisfying victory!

Me, Raquel y Lidia

The day settled into the perfect beach rhythm: jumping waves, building in the sand, floating in the warm water, and simply soaking in the atmosphere. What makes this beach truly unforgettable, though, is the backdrop. Rising dramatically from the rocky peninsula is the magnificent castle of Peñíscola, its ancient stone walls towering above the sea. It’s hard to imagine a more beautiful setting for a day at the beach.

The beach itself is undeniably crowded—and this wasn’t even a weekend. Brightly colored umbrellas covered nearly every inch of sand, and once you were in the water you had to keep an eye out to avoid drifting into someone else’s float or body surfing into another family. Yet somehow it never felt overwhelming. There was an infectious energy to it all. The laughter, conversations in a dozen languages, children chasing waves, and the constant movement made the beach feel vibrant and alive.

One of the highlights of the day was renting a paddle boat with a built-in waterslide. Climbing up and launching ourselves into the sea brought out everyone’s inner child. Unfortunately, I left my waterproof phone case behind, so I don’t have any photos of us flying down the slide. Sometimes the best memories are the ones you simply have to experience.

Paddle boat rental at Peñíscola Beach

As we paddled around, I couldn’t help but wonder if something like this would be a hit back home at the Greater Richmond Sailing Association. I asked Amir whether a paddle boat without a sail would even be allowed on the water there. He wasn’t sure, but agreed that if the club members saw how much fun everyone was having, they might be willing to make an exception. It may be a far-fetched idea—but I have a feeling it would be a popular one!

After a full morning at the beach, everyone was ready for lunch. We picked up a takeout paella from a small local spot that, somewhat surprisingly, is also known for making excellent pizza. It felt wonderfully unpretentious—here was one of Spain’s most iconic dishes being served from a casual neighborhood takeaway.

Back at the house, we gathered around the outdoor table to enjoy our feast. As seems to be the custom here, neighbors wandered over with an open invitation to join us. There was no need for formal plans or elaborate invitations—just good food, good conversation, and whoever happened to be nearby. It’s a refreshing way to live.

After lunch, the kids wasted no time jumping back into the pool while the adults lingered over conversation in the shade. Eventually, though, the Mediterranean heat caught up with all of us. At 5:15, the house grew quiet as everyone retreated to their bedrooms for a proper siesta. At first, the late-afternoon nap seemed like an unusual tradition to me, but after spending a few days here, I’m beginning to understand why it’s endured for generations.

Tonight we’re looking forward to something completely different: dinner inside the castle walls of Peñíscola. After spending the day admiring the fortress from the beach, we’ll finally get the chance to climb up into the old city and experience it from within. It feels like the perfect way to end another unforgettable day on Spain’s Mediterranean coast.

~Steph

St Thomas Day 1: Direct flight delight

Somewhere around Christmastime, but before all this winter’s snow, we made a call to book a beach vacation over Spring Break. We had no idea how much we’d need it.

2025 Snow Troopers

January 2025 was just as the Counting Crows would say, “a long December.” A city-wide water crisis in Richmond had spillover effects to surrounding counties and, while our water at home was unaffected, work was a different story. We had two working bathrooms at our hospital, but colleagues at other local hospitals shared photos of temporary employee restrooms – 5 gallon buckets lined with red biohazard bags.

This trip we’re headed to St Thomas in the Virgin Islands, an unincorporated territory of the United States. We needed to pick somewhere within the US, Mexico or Canada to ensure that Ale, our au pair and 6th member of our family, could travel with us. Added bonus of the St Thomas selection: some of our best friends from home, Dee and Patrick, are coincidentally vacationing there at the same time. More to come on that.

Arriving at St Thomas

A few perks of St Thomas – direct flights from Dulles and same time zone as Richmond. As anyone who’s traveled with kids knows, these may be two of the hugest factors in calculating toddler travel meltdowns. Aside from the 3am wakeup to catch the 9am out of Dulles, traveling here was easy peasy. (I say that cautiously knowing there’s still a trip home to be had.)

Amir rented a three-row SUV from Budget. Things aren’t cheap here, but everything is essentially a 30 minute drive or less. We figured a rental would give us flexibility to explore since we’re staying at an AirBnB, not a resort with built-in shuttles.

They drive on the left side of the road here, but unlike the UK, the steering wheels are still on the left. Despite the small size of the island and its roads, cars and SUVs are just as big as mainland US. I plan to dig into just why that is.

Sea View on the Northern Coast

Sea View was easy to find. The roads winding up and down the mountains with breathtaking views of the sea immediately brought me back to those guardrail-less cliffs in Crete, Greece. As I’ve noted in a multitude of past posts, Amir is a great driver in an unknown environment. I learned that early on when we were duty partners on the ambulance.

Sea View is as-advertised

As soon as we arrived, I could barely get my sunscreen and suit on before the kids were jumping into the pool. I planned ahead and brought lifejackets for #1BigBrother and #1LittleSister since I knew we’d be doing a good amount of snorkeling. I have a 1:1 non-swimmer to adult rule without lifejackets. Since it was 3:1 this afternoon, the lifejackets went on.

Amir headed to the grocery store almost as soon as we arrived here. We’d barely eaten breakfast, missed lunch, and were about to be eaten by a pack of hungry children. We were warned that groceries are expensive yet still didn’t expect the level of sticker shock. At the Cost-U-Less supermarket, a box of Ritz crackers costs $12, a dozen eggs $15 and somehow a handle of decent rum only $10.

Amir grilled up cheeseburgers on the poolside grill, and Ale finally showed some skills in the kitchen/bar arena, making us all “Pain-Killer” cocktails.

We’re all exhausted from the day – understandably so. We have no plans to wake up by any particular time for any particular reason. If we make it out to a local beach where we can snorkel, that will be a major win.

~Steph

St Maarten Day 5: Pruned and Pickled

Last day here – we had motivated intentions to hit the other side of the island via taxi, but the kids won. They loved what they saw at Kids’ Club yesterday and demanded a return visit.

Kids’ Club Schedule at Sonesta Maho

I started the morning taking everyone to breakfast. Second day in a row – 3:1 ratio at a buffet – do not recommend. But if you have to do it, here’s what you need to do:

Step 1: get a table within eyeshot of the buffet

Step 2: bribe two eldest for good behavior

Step 3: get a plate for the youngest – she needs to be distracted eating while you leave the table to help the other two

Step 4: whisk eldest kids through buffet lines while keeping an eye on youngest at table

Step 5: beg waitress for juices (ain’t nobody got enough hands for getting them on the buffet line)

Step 6: sneak away to grab plate for yourself

Step 7: abandon your plate secondary to embarrassment/hunger analysis when youngest two start screaming

#winning

Thank goodness for pizza 24/7

After feeding everyone, I headed to Kids Club to drop off the #1Bigs and take #1Little to the pool. We had some fun, but since she still has ZERO swimming ability and 100% sink capacity, this ex-lifeguard was NEVER relaxed. It was only when Amir showed up a bit later that I was able to breathe (and drink).

After a long day at the pool, we made a plan to eat dinner but then divide and conquer. The Bigs had their hearts set on movie night at the kids club. Ale took #1LittleSister for a bit while Amir and I enjoyed an evening cocktail by the water. Would you believe my husband, Egyptian lover of all things olive, gin and cocktails, had never before had a gin martini until tonight???? WHAT?

Tomorrow we head back to VA. Boo.

– Steph

St Maarten Day 4: I feel old

While the days here are going well, the nights are a bit painful. Between me snoring and keeping Amir awake, little people crawling into our bed and some less than fluffy pillows… this isn’t the best sleep we’ve ever had. Thankfully the days are exhausting, so you have no choice but to crash when your head hits that stiff pillow.

Today we ate all three meals at the buffet here at Sonesta Maho. The food is delicious, with a wide variety of local dishes as well as guaranteed to please toddler favorites like chicken nuggets and pizza. Last night we marveled at how they seem to have gotten a hold of the supplier for McDonald’s Chicken McNuggets which, if you’ve had them, you know are very distinct. And no where except McDonalds. And apparently Sonesta Maho.

Enjoying the finer things in life

This trip is a bit different than our usual adventures. This is not intended to be an exploratory mission of the island, rather a slow down and easy fun. We’ve gotten to know the pool, waterslides and swim up bar in great detail, but I don’t have too much to share on local culture and society. I started to feel guilty for like a half second and then remembered just how hard we work, and that the kids are perfectly happy eating pizza and ice cream at the same place every day. And I’ve yet to hear a complaint about the endless “slushies.”

Nap time

Right now we’re looking at July for a two week trip. Iceland and a France are on the menu for consideration thanks to reasonable fares on Icelandic Air.

The sandpit at Kids Club

Mid afternoon we did make a new discovery – hidden behind the lush greenery by the pool is the kids club. Suited for ages 3-11, it’s a two story indoor/outdoor facility with art, legos, a two-story indoor slide, beanbag chairs, Xbox stations and an entire playground outside. It’s closed off from the rest of the resort and surprisingly quiet. We dropped the two oldest off for an hour to enjoy some independence for all. Amir felt guilty – I was kicking myself for only discovering the place at the end of the trip. The kids want to go back tomorrow. I’m sure we’ll cave.

– Steph

#1BigBrother makes a new friend