Category: Food & Drink

Solo Mom trip Day 4: Zero Plans (!)

As I mentioned yesterday, I’d had hopes of snorkeling while here. Well, sometimes reality takes hold and changes the plan. Thanks to some sunburn and highs of 69 degrees and 25 mph winds, I opted NOT to go on the 7 hour snorkeling and boating adventure. One important lesson parenting has taught me is “Quit while you are ahead.”

The sun finally came out at 4pm

Since I decided to skip the snorkeling and poolside, I planned my day around food. I hadn’t yet explored the buffet, not for any good reason except I didn’t know where it was yet. I hunted it down for lunch as online reviews gave high praise.

Pro tip (not medical advice): if you skip breakfast, you have more room for lunch. The buffet spread was vast and international including ceviche, sushi and even hotdogs.

After lunch I stopped by The Vine Bar to sit down and formulate a game plan. Little did I know but my “plan” turned out to be having drinks and fun with two amazing Hungarian women, tequila shots and all. At 4 they decided they should probably eat lunch, so we parted ways and I headed for a walk.

Toes in the sand

4 pm turned out to be the first time today the sun made its presence. A bit disappointing but my reality was with a bit of sunburn, I wasn’t going to be lounging poolside catching rays anyway. I walked for an hour and headed back inside to regroup.

The resort has daily activities including live music. I sat and watched a saxophonist, pianist and a Broadway singer while sipping a cold glass of Sauvignon Blanc. She seemed to appreciate the applause, while I found myself pining for home, thinking of our mini concerts Lidia, our au pair, treats us to.

For dinner I chose the Italian restaurant, Nebbiolo. I was able to be seated and immediately, but was not rushed to make a choice. Time here is in a nice balance – not like some countries where things seem to happen too slowly or in a rushed way, here time is less intrusive.

Alas, tomorrow I head home. I won’t lie and say I wouldn’t mind another day here, but I feel sufficiently recharged and with some renewed perspective. Esta es la razón que viajamos, ¿no?

-Steph

Solo Mom Trip, Day 3: Mexico instead of St Maarten

Today was my first full day here in Cancun. I arrived after dark last night, so I wasn’t able to appreciate much of the resort until daylight.

I took my time getting out of bed and may have spend a full hour in the dual head rain shower before lathering myself in sunscreen and climbing into one of three bathing suits I brought.

I sat next to a nice couple from Canada – they both work in healthcare, so we had some good conversation about the state of affairs in both the US and Canada. We tried not to talk too much shop but sometimes you can’t help it.

Despite dousing myself in SPF50, I still managed to get too much sun today. The older I get, the harder it is to protect my pale self – I’m starting to see why old ladies like big hats and linen outfits.

This afternoon I went to the spa for a hydrosubmersion experience and massage. I didn’t exactly know what a hydrosubmersion experience was but figured the surprise might be part of the fun. Turns out you sit in a dry sauna for 10 minutes, a steam room for 10 minutes, then do a full-body submersion in 11 degree water à la a Polar Plunge. Immediately after that, you enter the last pool which is not quite a hot tub. It was fun to try, but the massage was what I was really there for.

There are six restaurants at the resort offering everything from local Mexican fare to Asian Fusion. I ordered lunch poolside – three Shrimp Tacos which was just the right amount of food for me. I was happy to see they weren’t serving “American-sized” portions. For dinner, I’d decided yesterday to try Dragons, the Asian Fusion spot. It’s casual dress, but with a menu spanning Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese and Chinese or maybe a mix of all of the above.

I think the sun wiped me out a bit. I found myself back in the room at 7:30pm, in Jammie’s again after another hour-long shower.

I booked a snorkeling trip for tomorrow but am now reconsidering given the sun exposure. It may be safer to hang back here at the resort in the shade rather than on a boat where I’ll have less flexibility to dodge the sunshine. I’m going to sleep on it and decide in the morning.

-Steph

St Thomas Day 4: Cowpet Bay Beach and a dinner at home with friends

Another 6:30 am wakeup – this is all starting to feel a bit predictable. Just after I finished serving up first breakfast (toast with butter and frozen mangos), I moved on to cooking up second breakfast (scrambled eggs with sausage links). They’d have taken a third breakfast if I let them, but at some point you just have to say no.

Somewhere around 4 am

With the hustle and bustle of yesterday, we were all craving a slow, easy relaxing day. Having casually said yesterday that we’d hang out today, this morning I texted Dee, “some of us are still in bed so it’ll be a bit before we figure out our specifics – I’ll keep you posted but don’t let us hold you up.” That may or not have been 10 am.

Somewhere around 11, we corralled everyone out the door, into the car and drove eastward to Cowpet Bay. There are a few nice resorts overlooking the bay which is dotted with anchored sailboats and swimming buoys. This beach was much less crowded than the Marriott, feeling more residential in the vibe, but still offering a great pool, multiple bars and a great casual beachfront restaurant with easy takeout.

Drip castles in the sand

Thanks to recommendations from one of our co-workers, Chelsea, I brought along a snorkeling raft and viewer. I’d never seen one of these things before – an inflatable raft with a drop in viewfinder that essentially creates a snorkeling-like view for those too young or too nervous to use a traditional mask.

That made Chelsea 2 for 2 on great recommendations – she was also the one who told me to pack milk-bone dog biscuits for feeding the fish yesterday.

Sandy shipwreck

We left Cowpet Bay around 4, heading home to shower, nap and prep for dinner. Dee and crew came to our place for dinner, swimming and ice cream. By 9pm, we all had nothing left to give.

A meeting of the minds

We got a call today that the boys’ fishing charter we’d scheduled for Friday is cancelled due to weather – something about 30 mph winds and potential for seasickness. There are definitely some disappointed faces, but we might try for a fishing outing in Norfolk once back home in Virginia.

We are going to bed tonight with absolutely ZERO plans for tomorrow. It’s lovely.

~Steph

St Thomas Day 3: Catamaran sea turtle snorkeling trip and dinner at Sun & Sea

Man has it been a day. I’d hoped for more sleep this morning, but the reliable 6:30 am wakeup crew stayed consistent – begging for bananas and mangos until I finally dragged myself out of bed.

Marriott Resort, The VI Cat launch spot

We had a reservation at 1PM for a catamaran snorkeling adventure on The VI Cat with Dee, Patrick and all the kids. We made the reservation just two weeks in advance, but I’m told that things usually book up solid after that.

Morning swim session

This morning we didn’t want to do anything crazy since we knew the afternoon would be a lot. We swam at the house, and Amir made homemade pasta sauce – fresh tomatoes, onions, garlic and ricotta cheese with ground beef over fettuccini. We wanted to fill up for the boat to ease any unsettled stomachs and more importantly prevent the begging for snacks.

The catamaran left the dock at 1pm sharp, so we needed to be there by 12:30. Everything in the island is drivable within 30 minutes as far as we can tell. We had no issues making our deadline.

We motored out to Little Buck Island, a known sanctuary for sea turtles. After a quick safety briefing and warnings not to touch the sea turtles – a $10,000 fine with half going to your tour operator so they are incentivized to turn you in.

We broke into two groups, each with a guide who would point out turtles and other creatures of interest. The snorkeling itself lasted 45 minutes which was great for our crew but might feel short for a more serious crowd.

I popped my iPhone into a Pelican case in hopes of snapping some in and underwater photos. Note to self – practice with said case on dry land and learn what side buttons confidently do what before trying to snorkel with a toddler on your back. Hopefully I’ll get the hang of it as the week goes on.

One of five sea turtles I spotted

After the snorkeling portion, the sails went up, the boat crew mixed up a huge vat of Pain Killers, set out snacks and served up sodas for the kids. It was a nice way to unwind after the water adventure.

There was one snag as we left the dock – Dee accidentally set her phone down somewhere just before we boarded. She realized it almost immediately, just as we set sail for Little Buck Island. In desperation, she called the Marriott resort, the site we’d left from, and they ensured her they’d send security to hunt for her phone. I’m not sure we were hopeful, but there wasn’t anything to be done until we returned to shore and could launch a proper search & rescue mission.

Once back on shore, she called Marriott security who assured her they’d indeed found her phone (turned in to lost & found by a Good Samaritan), and that she ought to call her mom who seemed quite worried after calling and learning she’d lost her phone.

After snorkeling, we jumped in our cars and set off to a small restaurant Amir found on Google Maps. If you’ve followed us on other trips, you know Amir’s a whiz at picking out extra special hole-in-the-wall places just based off of online reviews and photos. Today’s selection did not disappoint.

Situated inside a resort, it’s a bit off the beaten path, which worked in our favor trying to get two tables for 11 total with no reservations.

The restaurant hangs out over the water, similar to a Bubbas or Dockside for those of you familiar with Virginia Beach. Added bonus not available anywhere else – giant tarpon swimming in the shallow water below, easily visible from our tables, and easy enticed with Milk-bone Dog Biscuits (thanks for the tip Chelsea).

They offer the most affordable prices we’ve seen yet – $9 island drinks, $4 Coors Lite, $16 for three fresh catch fish tacos. But the built-in entertainment was priceless. Don’t be shocked if we go back before the week ends.

Free temporary tattoos from The VI Cat

Tomorrow we plan to spend the day at the resort where Dee and Patrick are staying, and hopefully catch up with one of our other friends in Emergency Medicine, Melissa.

I’m hoping for better sleep tonight as the sun, sand and sips are starting to slow me down.

~Steph

France Day 9: Honfleur Farmers Market & Saint-Adresse Beach

Today was our last full day here – tomorrow is all travel back to Paris to return our rental van and fly back to the States. I think all of us are slowing down – lots of sun, food and play… home is starting to call.

The vegetable stall at the morning market

Every Wednesday and Saturday morning, right in front of the wooden church from yesterday, Sainte-Catherine, there’s a local market at 8am. We went on a Wednesday, but my online research tells me the Saturday market is a bit bigger. The market features local farmers, butchers, bakers and artisans selling jewelry, textiles and pottery. The local cideries and vineyards also come out with a wide offering of spirits. We grabbed some leafy lettuce and giant green onions for a salad, a few baguettes of course, and some homemade quiche.

But our menu wasn’t quite complete. Amir’s been eyeing the giant spider crabs ever since we arrived, and today seemed like the perfect day. Our lunch special guest came precooked, and “checked” by the pêcheur. Checked for what, I suspect I’d rather not know.

Those barnacles have been there a while…

Neither of us ever having eaten a spider crab, we underestimated the caliber if crab cracking tools we’d need to break into this bad boy. Traditional silver crab crackers were akin to a butter knife sawing through titanium. The shell is probably 8 times as thick as a snow crab, nothing we used could penetrate the perimeter. Amir went in search of better tools, and ultimate found success using a 12” diameter garden stone. VICTORY!

The king and his feast (check out that salad bowl)

There was of course more swimming after lunch, some forced naps, and a cocktail for me. Yesterday I took a chance on a bottle of Limoncello with Calvados. We first sampled Calvados during our side car adventure. It’s a French eau de vie produced in Normandy which is distilled from cider or perry and aged for a minimum of two or three years. Minimum alcohol content: 40% ABV. It packs a punch.

Around 5:30pm, we set off in the van for a 45 minute ride across the suspension bridge to Sainte-Adresse. We’d eaten a heavy lunch, so we were only interested in charcuterie and dessert. Amir again used a Google Maps to find Le Panorama, a small patio restaurant, full of people and posh dogs, with as the name says, panoramic views of the Seine. We watched cruise ships, sailboats and cargo tankers battle for right of way – paddle boarders and sunbathers laying claim to the rocky shore.

#1LittleSister explores “big rocks”
You can park your moto in front of Le Panorama

After some good rock throwing and stone stacking, the day was growing late and bedtime well-past blown. Amir fetched the van – door to door drop off service thanks to his mom being along.

Tomorrow we need to leave here between 9 and 10 am to ensure we have enough time to return the rental and check in for our international flight. Somehow we’ve already reached that part of the trip that forces me to reflect and process. But for now I’ll keep my mind occupied packing and cleaning. There’s plenty of time up in the air tomorrow for that work.

~Steph

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